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3 Ways I Embrace My Flaws In 2018

3 Ways I Embrace My Flaws In 2018

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Anxiety filled
Yet a smile is plastered on my face
Today’s topic of the day
My flaws
The imperfections
Blemishes I try to conceal
Am I about to put myself on blast?
Or am I admitting and moving forward?
Perspectives may vary
But I’m living my truth
Easily distracted
A little too sensitive
Words matter to me
But to others
They’re empty promises
Before the confidence took over
I was insecure
A sheep in the crowd
Dulling my shine just to fit in
But I awoke
Elevated to the next level
Never one to be mediocre
Full of life and colour
But how did I embrace my flaws?
Let’s find out.

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Change Of Perspective

It’s our state of mind that needs to be addressed in order to move on and accept ourselves completely. Before, I use to see my body as a flaw. Constantly bombarded with western beauty ideals and being surrounded by skinny girls deflated my ego. To the point, I just wanted to hide. My body was far from the narrow-minded ideal. A fluctuating weight, the appearance of blemishes, cellulite and curves only made me feel worse. Ironically, now most women desire curves, that Kim K, Ashley Graham or Iskra Lawrence physique. With the rise of body image activists, I must have missed the memo about being my own cheerleader. One day something inside me changed, I decided that life is too beautiful not to celebrate myself. As my perspective changed, my happiness grew and I began loving myself even more. I may still experience insecurities from time-to-time, yet I choose to look past them and bask in my glow.

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Self-love Before Self-Improvement

What’s your reason behind improving? If it’s for yourself, then power on. If you’re changing due to the opinions of others, then it’s unlikely you’ll achieve your goals. I had to love myself before I pushed for improvement, accepting myself entirely, the naked truth. Self-love can be exercised in various ways. a few examples include

  • Making a list of what you love about yourselves – as we tend to dismiss compliments yet hold onto the unkind words were met with.
  • Making an extra effort – this could be reading every night, wearing a quirky accessory or treating yourself to a tasty treat.
  • Having regular pamper sessions – taking a bubble bath with all the works, getting a manicure or changing your hairstyle.
  • Music sessions at home – putting on a performance in your room, singing along to the lyrics and joyfully dancing around.

The goal is to pick something that makes you feel good, which in turn increases confidence and self-love.

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Positive Affirmations

Once self-love is established positive affirmations maintain the relationship you have with yourself. One thing I love is meaningful, empowering, confidence-boosting quotes, so much so, that I have a dedicated Pinterest board. They’re an instant pick me up, reminding me to be happy and ultimately saying girl, you got this. When quotes just don’t make the cut, I turn to feel-good music. That usually involves Beyoncé, Queen B of uplifting anthems. Get your blood pumping by blasting some tunes, dancing around your room, and brighten your mood. I’ve mentioned this twice; can you tell I do this regularly?

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Before I end this I would just like to say Happy International Women’s Day. A day to celebrate the queens in our lives, the sacrifices they made, the love they share and let’s not forget those who came before and fought for so much of what we have now. Women around the world, of all shapes, sizes and shades, you’re all beautiful, keep glowing and most importantly remember you are enough. 

What’s one thing you love about yourself?

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